Friday, January 15, 2010

ANOTHER CHANCE TO BEGIN TO "THINK AND GROW RICH" IN 2010: ARE YOU MARRIED TO THE RIGHT MATE?

Greetings,

For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24)

Welcome once again to Let's Talk where we are taking a look at the thirty-one major reasons for failure. Our text of study is "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.

Our topic for today deals with our mate. It is very important to be married to the right person. When we find the person who is right for us, we will be happier and we will be more productive. This is true because we understand one another. We know what we want and our mate supports us in our endeavors.

For this reason, it is crucial for us to be married to the right person. If our mate is not supportive and do not understand our mission or plan, this can make for a very unhappy relationship. Failed marriages is a failure that is emotionally destroying. It leaves scares that are sometimes hard to forget about and forgive.

While on this journey to success, there are some decisions that we must make. These will be decisions that involve sacrifice, not only for and of ourselves, but our family as well, especially our mate. If we have the right mate, we can come up with a game plan that will allow us to survive and thrive during the hard times of transition.

But if we are on two separate pages, life will be miserable and we will get distracted. We will not be focused on arriving at our destination. Rather, we will be trying to avoid hurt and loss. Dealing with life issues other than our plan for success will become our main objective.

So, this raises the question, Are you married to the wrong mate? Could this be your cause for failure? According to "Think and Grow Rich", this is the most common cause of failure. It is also one marked by unhappiness and the clear view of our ambitions get lost.

If you realize you are married to the wrong mate, all does not have to be lost. You must address the issue and come to an agreement and seal it with commitment. This will take work, hard work, but it can be accomplished if the marriage is what you truly want.

If you are not married, please consider your plans for success and communicate with your partner. Make sure they understand where you are going in life and what it will take to get there. Give them the option to get on board or not. If they are not on board, make the decision that is best for you. This may mean passing on your partner to achieve you dreams and goals of success. It is a tough situation to deal with, but it is better to deal with it before the marriage than after. Let's get on the same page, start strong and complete this race to success.

That's all for this issue of Let's Talk. Join me again tomorrow. We will discuss how over-cautiousness causes failure. I welcome your feedback. Please leave me any comments and/or questions and let me know what’s on your mind. If you know anyone who would benefit from this information, please share this site with them.

Until next time,

God Bless

T.J. Robinson

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